An hour after playing the video game “Baldur’s Gate 3” with my husband, we had already broken the first and probably most ignored rule of “Dungeons & Dragons”: never split the party.
Separated at opposite ends of a crypt after an unfortunate incident with a trap that set a room on fire, we didn’t know how to bring our team together – including his gnome monk and my elf cleric – without killing us all.
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